New Job: 10 Habits of Successful Women

Boss, but with Style 🤍

Starting a new job is a bit like a first date: you want to make a good impression, show your best side, and avoid saying anything embarrassing within the first few minutes. But beyond the initial stress and the crucial choice of the perfect outfit for your first day (because, let’s face it, it's an art), successful women have certain habits that help them make an impact right from the start.

So, if you want to be the one who masters the “new job glow,” here are 10 habits to adopt from day one.

1. They Arrive Prepared (and not just with a XXL coffee)

   
   

Successful women don’t just show up with a confident smile and a pretty notebook under their arm. They’ve done their homework: they know the company, its history, its values, and even the latest office gossip (without going overboard, of course). Because having a fun fact to slip into a conversation is always a plus.

And most importantly, they know how to avoid the fatal mistake: showing up without having Googled their boss.

💌 We all remember Andy Sachs showing up at Runway Magazine with her oversized wool sweater and innocent look... We know how that ended.

2. They Observe Before Talking Too Much

No need to try and impress everyone within the first hour. Women who shine know that listening is a powerful weapon. They observe the team dynamics, spot the unofficial leaders, and most importantly, avoid aligning themselves too quickly with the person who’s complaining by the coffee machine.

3. They Dress for the Job They Want

It’s classic, but it’s still true. Work attire is like modern armor: it says a lot before you even open your mouth. So, they choose elegant pieces, suited to the environment, with that little touch that shows they’re here to play with the big leagues. (Hello, power dressing!)

A little tip: if your boss is a reincarnation of Miranda Priestly, it’s better to skip the questionable sneakers and wrinkled shirt, unless you want to find yourself in a real-life version of The Devil Wears Prada.

4. They Ask Strategic Questions

Successful women don’t ask questions just to fill the silence. They ask what’s expected of them, what the team’s challenges are, and how they can add value. In short, they show they’re here to contribute, not just to take notes with a polite smile.

5. They Build Their Network from Day One

You can’t succeed alone, and they know that. They take the time to talk to their colleagues, learn their names (even the ones that seem impossible to remember), and understand who does what. Because a good internal network is often the key to going far.

6. They Set Their Own Goals (Before Someone Else Does)

Of course, there are the goals set by the boss, but they know that in order to move forward, they need their own ambitions. They ask themselves: where do I want to be in 6 months, 1 year? And most importantly, how can I make my work speak for itself?

7. They Don’t Play the Hero of “I’ll Do It All Myself”

They know how to delegate, ask for help, and recognize when they need a hand. Trying to do everything alone is often the best way to end up exhausted before even finishing the probation period.

8. They Master the Art of “I’m New, But Not Lost”

There’s a difference between asking questions and seeming completely overwhelmed. Successful women own their status as a newcomer, but with confidence. They ask for clarification when necessary, but without falling into constant insecurity.

“Maybe the best we can do is not give up, play with the cards we were dealt, and accessorize the outfit we’ve got.” - Carrie Bradshaw

9. They Stay True to Themselves (But in a Boosted Version)

No way are they turning into a corporate robot just to please. They stay true to their personality, while adapting it to the context. Because real success is also about being recognized for who you are, not for a watered-down version of yourself.

10. They Know the First Impression Doesn’t Mean Everything

Yes, the first day is important, but they know that real success is built over the long term. They don’t put too much pressure on themselves and take the time to get to know their new environment.

After all, Rome wasn’t built in a day... and neither is a career.

So, ready to shine in your new job?

And if you're still unsure about the perfect outfit, remember: a good blazer has saved more than one situation.

And as for surviving a boss like Miranda Priestly... all I can say is sometimes, a hot coffee and a good sense of humor are worth more than a Chanel bag 💕

XOXO,

The Gossip Insiderer.